My Foundational Ruby
On this day in 1935, Marlene Louise Sickels, now Marlene McCormick, was born. Just an ordinary firstborn to ordinary parents. That’s what some would say, but not me, her other 5 children or the countless other lives she has touched.

There is no way I could begin to tell you Mom’s story. My goal is to celebrate the gemlike beauty she has shown throughout her life.

Her clarity: This lady is the most genuine woman I know. Her honesty and transparency in everything she does draws people to her. They know that she is a person who will be on their side completely but not always to tell them what they want to hear; to give them truth. Knowing this woman is to know that you are cared for in the truest sense of the word.


Her color: Not her skin, but the deep glowing color of who she really is. She invests in the lives of people. Almost like adding strokes color to a painting, she blends the stunning colors of friendship, love, trust, and Jesus into her friendships. Each person she loves knows that she doesn’t know how to have a “surface” friendship. Those relationships are rich and beautiful.

Her cut: Cutting a gem is what is used to perfect it. Each situation in a person’s life changes them. If we allow it to change or cut us for the better, the color and the clarity of who we are is made more brilliant just like a gem. Mom has been no stranger to life’s drama. After all, this is a lady who lost her husband in her mid thirties with 6 children to raise. Enduring more than her fair share of tragedy, she allowed her heart to learn and be shaped by the Master Gem Cutter’s hammer and chisel. She desired to have God shape her into the woman He knew she needed and wanted to be. I am not blind enough to say she has made perfect decisions every time. She is human. She did, however, stay in communication with her Lord so He could make her more like Him.


Because of this amazing woman’s life and how she chose to live, I was given a foundation on which to build my own life. A foundation of a priceless ruby.


Marmie, you are a true Proverbs 31 woman. Thank you for being my foundational ruby!


“Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: 'Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.' ” Proverbs 31:28 & 29
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  1. MJReaves Says:

    OMW!! It made me cry, because it's so true and she is amazing. Love it!


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